DesiPundit

Chandni wonders why people expect you to act completely uncharacteristically just because you are married now. I can relate to this, I have always wondered why people in India assume you will suddenly start wearing bangles and huge bindis to work.

As I type this, a dinner plan is being discussed at work…and when I am asked the same, it is suffixed with “talk to your husband and ask him if you can come”. Excuse me? I am not his pet dog you know, nor do I have a leash around my neck. I can very well make plans and decisions for myself and just let him know.